Sometimes you need to write stuff down to remember... I am very pregnant with kid #5. We decided mapthat we needed to sell the house and move closer to Nicks school. He is driving about an hour and a half one way to work and back, on toll roads that are costing about $100 a month... Houses sell in the spring time.... people move at the beginning of summer. I am due to have a baby in spring time..... we decided moving pregnant or with a newborn was going to suck no matter how we do it and that we need to go when the going is good to get the most money out of our home.....
So we put our house on the market.... my mom came and got it crazy clean in here in a week. We put it on the market on a Thursday morning, and had offers by Saturday and a signed contract by sunday night.......
Now the clock is ticking..... find a house on the other side of Dallas.... with all of the other people in the world... every house we bid on is gone for much high than expected much higher than we can do within the first weekend its up.
We don't have to be out of our house till the end of May... Baby boy is coming at the end of April. This is while Nick is working far away, long days, he just got through competitions. Now starts the spring show rehersals, before school, after school, late nights, while fitting in seeing houses, that I have given up on going with him because it is a giant waste of time because we offer on them and don't get them anyways........
So Friday the kids don't have school, I wake up with a horrible cold..... fever I feel like crap, but all the kids are home, no time for a break! this could be the last time we get to go to the park before baby!! Nick is seeing houses Friday night, I am lining up with the financing guy to get preapproval letters for the houses we will throw offers at this weekend. We decide to go to the new park that opened... I am 36 and a lot weeks pregnant, contractions all the time... 7 lb baby in there(just had an ultrasound) dialated to a 3..... baby is coming soon I hope I'm miserable.... lets go to the park
we are there for about 3 minutes, my kids scatter... Daxon and I waddle around slowly to find Ember, shes loving this place, I say "you should try that thing over there" away she goes I look back at dax to make sure he is coming, I look back at Ember and she had fallen, face first onto the metal feet bar of this stand and spin thing.... shes running to me screaming, blood every where.... we drop tot he ground and pull out wipes, I cant really tell what happened looks like her lip, too much blood..... wipe some of it away and notice her 4 front teeth are pushed back and up to the roof of her mouth.... wow I say, I keep wiping, another mom asks if I need anything, a flock of moms around now, making sure the toddler doesn't wander off.. "Just trying to decide if we are headed to the ER or to the dentist.... " I say, I repack her mouth, I point out my other two kids and some lady goes and gets them, they are ticked we have to leave.. Wil carries Daxon, Cooper grabs the bag, I scoop up ember we walk quickly and calmly to the car, she isn't crying.... shes just holding me tight.....
so much blood!
the boys are mad, why are we leaving we just got here, we didn't get to do the zip line we were in line the whole time, can we go back
explaining to them that we are in emergency mode, it took them a while to get it,
I start having contractions and a panic attack, everyone gets buckled
phone calls, her dentist isn't there today, the next 3 dentists don't take her insurance, make an appointment at one 30 minutes away, for in an hour and a half.... they say stop at the urgent care to make sure there is nothing else happening..
drag everyone into the urgent care, they don't take our insurance, they take her into the hallway and look at her without checking her in so they don't have to charge me if its nothing, they were amazing, they checked her eyes, looked inside to make sure nothing needed stitches, said we were ok and to get her to the dentist where they would be equipped to help her....
Ember was a champ the whole time, no crying, let people look. Her lip was swollen to at least 6 times the normal size..... it was so huge and scary.......
I didn't cry until after the xray, I was holding her, I saw the xray and knew theyd have to pull em out...... Then the dentist came in and confirmed it, I just started sobbing...... but not for too long, just a couple, quietly, while she wasn't looking.... my only girl, 4 boys and my one sweet ember is the one who is going to miss her teeth for the next 3 years....
the other two teeth beside them they could pull forward a bit, and the tooth beside that has a chip in it that they will file down next time, when the swelling goes down.....
the tooth fairy came, (daddy) brought home some new toys and some cash for under her pillow.
he asked if he could buy her a car? lol
She didn't talk or eat for the next 24 hours.... she drooled and was in so much pain. it took forever for the swelling to start to go down, we are about 2 days out now.
She finally got off the bed and tried to eat a muffin at dinner last night... she just lit up. drank a protein drink and the life came back into her! she was trying to talk. she was being funny, she started to dance around..... I felt like I could live again...... hurt kids is the absolute worst...... the worst
I'm so glad shes not hurt worse... teeth are whatever,
the hardest part of having this many kids.... the hardest part, is not the day to day crap, not the laundry, not the messes, not the smells, nto the homework...... the hardest part is having these humans, these mortal, hurtable beings, and when they hurt, I hurt..... bad.... and that's a lot of chances to get hurt...... when someone is mean to them.... when they are heartbroken...... when they cry..... and I cant do anything but sit there and watch them go through their trial...... that's the hardest part...
Sunday, April 17, 2016
The last couple months
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Tuesday, February 2, 2016
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Monday, February 1, 2016
Dax the destroyer
After i had my emotional break down yesterday morning, i shook it off and went to get in the shower... I went out to check on the kids, everything seemed to be in ok order for me to shower, little kids watching a tv show, big kids playing a game, ive got 20 mins.
I get out of the shower and hear Cooper "Noo Nooo Daxy!!!!" but a lot meaner than normal... So i go check it out, cooper is walking away all no big deal i ask what happened, "daxon is making a big mess with chocolate syrup"
what??!!?
Scene in the livingroom --- Wil on little couch playing minecraft on laptop totally oblivious to life, Daxon standing in a pool of chocolate syrup, covered in it, in his hair all over his clothes, dumping syrup onto the $70 ps4 controller on the couch, and rubbing all the syrup all the freak over the couch.... allllll over, right next to the brand new ps vita that santa brought for christmas...
que the cleaning, i hand the ps4 remote straight to nick, it was everywhere then clean up the baby then stick him in time out, nick is yelling at the big boys for being completely oblivious to what was happening, cooper for leaving the syrup out, wil for not noticing life around him... 20 mins later of frantic sobbing cleaning,
where is the baby?
Oh of course
in the bathroom, with my makeup sprawled out on the rug, and dumping my powder bronzer all over the freaking place and rubbing it around like snow......
are you kidding me?!?!? time out
why are there a million people in this house and we cant keep track of one baby for like 10 mins... why,
also yesterday he dumped a cup of milk on the ground and splashed in it like the water park
oh and cooper has strep throat, but i didnt want to take him to the dr, there is only one blister and i dont want to spend the money on it
lol
then we were skyping my mom later, and for some horrible reason a red crayon got put by the fan on the laptop, didnt notice it, went to pick up said lap top after insane crazy child on sugar crack skype date with grandma and it is dripping red goo, all over the bottom of the computer all over the piano bench and something bounces in the drips onto my favorite rug......
red crayon
my brain isnt working fast enough i think "save the computer" so i run to the kitchen and wipe off the computer then i had that all done realized it was wax and it was drying and it was red......
my rug!!!!
doomed...... dry red wax everywhere.....
f my life......
lol!!!!! good thing i got all my crying out in the morning
oh and my dryer died..... and my van needs another new tire, but last weekend nicks old car had a blow out on the expressway so he needs tires more lol
we are good, i am blessed, we are well taken care of
i am just so tired...
and pregnant
and crazy
and daxon is a lot of work
so we ordered an extra large baby gate, and now he will be in baby jail...... for the remainder of this phase of destruction,
or until he speaks english better and cares that he is in time out
baby gate gets here tomorrow :)
i really need to keep track of these things, because one day when he is in middle school i will say something to the effect of "daxon was the best baby, i miss him that little, he was just so squishey and precious"
because i will have totally forgotten days like yesterday
never forget........ lol
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drama
I've decided that i need to be better at putting all my hilarious kid stories somewhere, and Facebook is a bit too public. i haven't written on here in a year, so there is a lot missing. Where are we now, Daxon is goin on 2, ember is almost 4, I am 6 months pregnant with surprise baby #5, He is due on daxons birthday, yes another boy....... I am scheduling nick a vasectomy as soon as our tax return is figured out :)
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Friday, February 27, 2015
Jan 15
I am really enjoying hanging out with Ember and Daxon during the days :) We spend most mornings at a fun activity, Joy school on tuesdays, library on thursdays, playgroup on fridays, grocery shopping on mondays lol. I carry Dax around in an Ergo i got as a hand me down from a friend and i love love love it, so does he! He is a crazy mamas boy and I am eating it up
We have been having as many fires as we can! Texas weather is funny, it gets really warm for a week then really cold for a week. Like turn the air on warm then turn the heater on cold. So we take advantage of the fire place as often as we can! We really really like to roast marshmallows, my kids are getting really good at making them perfectly brown.... well Wil is.
We put the swing set up that we got for Christmas the second week in January and the we are getting a ton of use out of it! There are a couple neighbor kids who are in the backyard with my kids almost daily. Ember is getting braver at playing too, not too brave.... but braver
Wil got a solar powered robot kit for christmas so Nick help him put it together one saturday. its just a little thing but crazy cool, it would just keep going forever out there in the sunlight :) Wil is big in to building things, kits and legos and electrical circuits. he got a snap circuit set for christmas and that thing is way awesome. it is like legos but with electricity and you can make designs and use switches to make different pieces work...... hard to explain but super fun.
I have been extremely enjoying baby Daxon. I know he is my last one, so every moment is easy. I am much more calm and chill about things with him, and I let him get away with a lot of things that I would never ever have let Wil do. I am still nursing him and plan to go till he is at least 1. The other babies I stopped at 6 months, with wil i went 9 months. With Dax nursing has been the go to to fix any situation or grumpiness, Nick and i both are sleeping so much better when just bring the baby in to bed and let him sleep and nurse all night long lol. Im not worried about him needing to sleep with us till he is 5, because i know they all grow up so stinking fast..... as long as they are happy and quiet and we are all sleeping than I am happy and things can just happen when they happen...... Im not forcing food down him cuz i know he is getting proper nutrition from the milk he gets, he is big and healthy. Im not stressing about him and Ember learning alphabet letters and numbers cuz I know that they will pick it up eventually. We just laugh and play and snuggle and sleep on the couch and eat chocolate for lunch. Wil got so bg so fast and i ache to have him cuddle like he used to :( When Wil was a baby i was so much more stressed out..... This time around I have real stress in my life and could care less about the baby stress...It really is great. although Daxon is getting way too big way too fast too......
I looooooove this dimpled butt!
Daxy finally cut some teeth at around 9 months old :)
Ember loves ballerinas and to twirl and dance, We got a big bag of old leotards and skirts from a friend and she wears them every day, and I have to do her hair in a bun like a "flowerina" thats what she calls it....... She has a little music box/jewelry box that has ballerinas that dance and spin when it is open to music. she will hang out in her room and spin and dance to the music . its desperately adorable..... We have decided to not push her in to dance classes though..... It will be best i think in the long run. we dont want her to be one of the hyper sexualized dance girls in middle school and high school, there is a whole slew of problems that goes with that, so even though i really want to dress her up and let her dance we are going to keep that fun to home and she will never know the difference.... she also loves baseball, and sommersalts, maybe we will do gymnastics instead :)
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Thursday, February 26, 2015
december 14
Wil got his own room and his own big comfy bed :) he loves it, i like it more than my own, too bad its a double or we would trade him!
Ember wearing the dress I wore for christmas when I was 2! i love it, and she loved it, even though it was ugly red velvet and had a huge collar. shes so cute and loved how it twirled out when she spun :)
She was so very scared of Santa. and then was scared of the library for weeks after. she would cry when we pulled up "Noooooo mom im scared of santa! i dont want to go in there!
My cutie kids! They are seriously the best things ever..... like ever,
Christmas Eve Eve we had a party and invited a bunch of people so that we could have an end date to all of our projects, so we pushed and pushed and had the house ready by then, so that we could chill and enjoy christmas!
Christmas morning was an awesome one! There was a giant present for Ember, My mom and my Grandpa Oesterle made her this gorgeous and huge barbie house, You can play on it from all four sides, its 3 floors and has stairs and rooms, she got a bunh of princess barbies and furniture to fill it.. it was awesome and she was spoiled, that doll house will last her alifetime though, it is one sturdy awesome piece of furniture!
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